Confidence is ****KEY****

I got a random question from one of my close Friends which I decided to make a YDNote out of (Because Damn, Its been a long time since I made one of these, and Consistency is key, and mad people hit up with the "You Fell off Fam!!", "Where you be?", and etc.. But no doubt.
The topic im going to get into is Confidence is ***KEY***, why mad people are lacking it and how the hell do you harness it.. Well your in luck, Im going to tell you how to build the shit and how to keep it in your energy..

The topic I’ll discuss is: Confidence is ***KEY*** Why mad people are lacking it, and how the hell do you harness it.. Since you’re in luck, I’m also going to tell you how to build it up and improve your energy flow as a result...
     Before we start, We're gonna go over a history lesson about Confidence. The origin of Confidence comes from what we call a Confident Man or Con Man for short. These dudes (Scam Artists and Swindlers) appear to believe in everything (Confidence) they stand for, and inspired the same level of trust from peers that were involved in the situation (until the con man left the area that is) Meanwhile, the Con Man's victim felt confident about purchasing from the Con Man because he'll use deceptive tactics (from flattery to flirting with the person, or even giving the impression that the person is getting a good deal..) to attain his goal. In other words, theses dudes were good at Hustling people out of their money, jewelry and affection by gaining their Confidence..

Now Confidence in regular terms must be built from its Foundation within you. To be truly effective at anything (Positive or Negative) you have to have some type of Belief in what you're doing. People will use the cliche; "Just feel good about yourself", or "you have to believe to achieve" and some disney shit..  Some people will get drunk or high to feel good about themselves, and others will purchase expensive cars or clothing to feel good about themselves but what they don't understand is that you can lose these momentary things or they can dissipate in the blink of an eye. However, what you acquire from within, NO ONE CAN TAKE AWAY FROM YOU.. (That’s Something you control)

• The Winner Vibe - Most people equate Confidence to Winning, You want to feel like a winner and that will make you attractive to females (it’s considered a form of Sex Appeal) In order to do that, you need to play the game. ("You Got to be in it to Win it") Even when the odds are stacked against you, you have to reach out for everything you desire, take risks. Most people don't actually win, not because they are losers but because they give up before trying. The Two easiest things to become in life are a Quitter (Someone who tries, messes up, and Gives up) and a Hater (Someone who won't even try but hates on the ones who do) which is how you create Loser vibes. And no one likes a loser. In order to avoid those, You will have to remove any reservations you may feel about taking risks, by:
  
• Trusting Yourself- Having inner doubts will generally show in your attitude, body language, and your demeanor, which is toxic to your Confidence. But Trusting ( Believing in yourself), having integrity (Being Honest and Having moral Principles), by just being yourself (What you’re probably doing right now) are some of the main secrets you'll master to achieve real Self- Confidence.
  
• Gaining Knowledge- Acquiring Knowledge also builds Confidence, The more information you hold, the tighter your flow will be.  Information translates into power and intelligence (if the military wanted to know something about an opponent, They call it Gathering Intel) the more you learn, the more dependable and self-reliant you become.
  

 Now Being obnoxious or bullying doesn't make you confident, it makes you arrogant (thinking you’re better than people) that comes along with Bragging about yourself, Flossin (Showin off) your material items and feeling threatened by others. All of this is Considered False confidence (this is no different from the Con-artists and Scammers who came up with it..). What is considered REAL Confidence is: Congratulating others, Staying calm and self-assured, Showing Respect and gratitude, Being discreet (Everybody doesn't need to know everything about you, only a select few. Familiarity Breeds Contempt and you'll end up doing something messed up and becoming a loser lol) and once you’re comfortable with the knowledge you’ve accumulated, material things will become irrelevant. People with false confidence will try to bring attention to them, while Real Confidence tries to deflect attention from themselves by putting the light on others.

    Now let’s wrap this up, The best way to build Confidence is to start creating small-big goals for yourself and complete them. Because you have to remember, Confidence is about getting  The Winner Vibe to a habit of achieving things on a regular basis. Just setting goals in general will get you into the cycle of planning, action, and achievement. Master this and you won't even have to depend on luck when dealing with females. A methodical approach in everything is the way to go. Work on that. If you need some examples here's a few..... Set 5 goals everyday for one week (They can be anything you want, something simple) and stick to them. Keep this up and you'll become a Man of your Word, Building Integrity and you'll learn to trust yourself.. and that's why Confidence is **Key**.





Sources:
Google Searching (Obviously)
The Elite Way by Tariq "Elite" Nasheed

Editing Done by:
​Manny Wonell