HOW NOT TO BE A SIMP!!!

Let’s face it, we live in a feminized environment, where pretty much the civilization is turning women into strong providers with masculine tendencies and men into beta type feminine dudes. When it comes to Simping, I don’t judge the dudes that were raised by single mothers because they sometimes they don’t give the correct advice to their sons about which women to avoid. That’s why you see a lot of men wifing up single mothers and women with promiscuous pasts. If you want to maintain your dignity and have successful relationships then you’ll have to avoid becoming a simp!! (A sucka, a submissive male, a subordinate).

•Respect yourself above all else
No women respects a kiss ass so stay true to who you are. Understand that you come first and practice convincing yourself that you’re a priority in your mind because self-esteem is more important than any outside sources remember, Happy king Marry kingdom.
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• Always look closer than just physical beauty
Just because she’s beautiful doesn’t mean you should put her on a pedestal, personality and background matters. Pay attention to her habits, and also her perspective on life the more positive the better she will bring to your life.

• Quit porn, only fans and cam girls
What the hell are you doing? Doing sh*t like this will present you with loser energy and your peers can sense that. Stop wasting all your energy or vibrations when we call in spiritual terms on jacking off to pixels on your computer. Use that energy to get a real woman.

• Never be a fanboy for models
Put value on your non-sexual attention, don’t just give it anyway recklessly. Stop tricking on these chicks online. Keep your money in your pocket invest in yourself.

• Have some purpose and direction to your life
Always stay busy, always occupy your time working on something that will benefit you for the future.

• Hit the gym hard
This will build confidence and a nice physique, And women will attract to you naturally. Body game makes up 80% and also open doors for you to even better experiences.

• Keep your options open
Women love a man with options, they’re low key have to be a competition for you. A Man in demand is a high value man. There's this thing called pre-selection which means that a woman will be attracted to a man that’s already been selected by other women because sometimes women have a high mindset when it comes to choosing a mate remember the more women that are into you, the more women that’s going to be into you.

• Don't just agree with a woman because she's beautiful.
Understand when to disagree, have balls to do that. Women love a man that moves with a strong conviction and also knows what he’s talking about and have confidence of what he’s talking about that can improve her life

• Make decisions based on what's best for you longer term
Your future/ purpose comes first, women will always be around. And they’re attracted to the winners. Make it happen.

• Cultivate discipline daily
Stay focus and don’t quit until your mission is done. That builds discipline. Work out, make a list of goals, discipline yourself.

• Seek to compete and beat who you were yesterday
Never compete with any other man. You are you own competition. Compete with the man you were yesterday. Your biggest opponent was who you were yesterday. Hell make it who you were the last hour.

• Look for personality compatibility over looks
The most beautiful woman you think is beautiful will become regular after dealing with her. Look for other perks that will keep you interested in her.

• Don't give validation or compliments presuming
something in return
Stop expecting things in return, it comes off as manipulation. Only give if that’s part of your character.

• Never place your well-being on someone else
Make sure you got yourself, never rely on anyone to take care of you. That’s a turn off to most women.

• Love yourself
This speaks for itself. Love who you are love your flaws. Love your purpose love everything about you. You come first.

• Stop following models and start following
self-improvement channels
Your non-sexual attention is your currency. Use that attention on improving yourself. See the first bullet points for more info.

• Don't settle down till you're absolutely sure
Make sure the woman you choose is your best option and never settle. She’s should be a complement to your life. Give it at least three months when it comes to taking her seriously give it at least two years when it comes to marriage.

if you follow most of the guidelines, the rest of the self improvement work for you will happen naturally. Folks will be attracted to your vibe and the way you carry yourself. Thank you for reading.